Hints & Tips
Sex Tips For Couples
Setting the scene
First set the scene. Too many women worry about what they look like, if
they focused on indulging every other sense with as much energy as they
concentrate on sight both they and their lover would be getting a whole
lot more out of sex. Play some sultry music, turn the lights down low and
light a few candles (preferably scented ones) and stretch out across crisp
cotton sheets (or whatever fabric does it for you). Keep it real though,
there's no need to perform - this is about luxuriating in each other and
your self, not pretending to be someone else.
Different Locations
Don't just try new positions, try new places- inside, outside. Book a night
in a hotel- even if it's just around the corner from your house and dedicate
a whole night to pleasuring each other and nothing else.
Broadening the sexual spectrum
Try some of these quirky tips to broaden your spectrum of sexual experience.
If it works for them, it might just work for you too.
Sex Tips For Women
Shake your thing!
Making all the right moves; here are some suggestions for shaking your booty
like a pro (and we're not talking dance floors) alongside some other useful
hints.
When you're on top try swivelling your hips through a figure of eight movement, rather than sticking with the usual up and down/ side to side routine- plenty of couples swear by it (usually at the top of their voices).
Get wrapped up in him, locking your ankles together across his back, which enables you to push back against him with greater force as he thrusts.
Lie on your front and get your man to lie down on top of you and enter you from behind keeping his legs outside yours. The extra pressure of your thighs gripping his penis intensifies the experience for both of you.
When you're masturbating your lover remember that whilst you need a firm grip you're not trying to throttle it. On the other hand holding it like a sock in a cup is not going to do much for him either. Encourage him to masturbate in front of you and feel how strong his grip is, then copy it. Now you know why men have the bigger biceps.
When giving head don't forget to use other parts of your body to stimulate his; press your breasts against his testicles, stroke his balls and backside, gently finger his anal passage, grip the base of the shaft for added friction, for a whole range of sensations that will send him silly and prevent you from getting jaw-ache.
Sex Tips For Men
Make Her Ecstatic!
Remember that the most sensitive part of the vagina is the first third,
so deep thrusting alone is not likely to do it for her. Play in the shallows
for a while for a different kind of sensation, you might find you like it.
The clitoris is incredibly sensitive, a lighter touch is often more erotic than a vigorous one. Take note, rubbing away like you expect a genie to pop out is more likely to turn her off than on as heavy-handedness tends to de-sensitise or irritate the area.
Keep your body close to hers and use it to stimulate her clitoris- there is a large number of women who cannot reach orgasm through penetration alone, and the closeness feels amazingly sensual for both of you.
When you're giving her head try moving your finger very slowly in a 'come hither' motion inside her (one or two fingers works for most girls) whilst gently licking her clit.
A nice move, if you can manage it, is to sit on the edge of the bed with both feet flat on the floor and have your lady sit astride you, face to face. Wrap your arms around her and enter her slowly, and instead of moving your hips, tighten and release your grip, rocking backwards and forwards slightly. You'll love the sensation as she slides up and down your penis, and the combination of the blood rushing to her head, you penetrating her, and being wrapped in your big strong arms is quite incredible for her. Now you know what a girl is really thinking when she admires your muscles.
- just make sure you don't drop her!
Additional Resources
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